Modern women believe: motherhood - not a reason to abandon the career of an active lifestyle and hobbies. In addition, thanks to the Internet, many of the women were able to work without even leaving home. It is definitely an advantage, especially when you've got at the hands of a small child. But how to explain to your child that his mother, though at home, but at the same time and on the job and it must be given time to this task. And at the same time still have time to cook dinner, at least from time to time direct order in the house, hanging out with crumbs outdoors. In short, to do whatever is necessary to make mothers. Of course, great if you have the opportunity to invite the aid of a nanny or send their children to kindergarten. But to find a good assistant that you can trust your beloved child is not as easy as it seems. Yes, and its services are not cheap. A familiarity with the garden will be held not earlier than in 1.5-2 years.
Experimental version of the site Kolobok.ua you hurry to the rescue and offers a few tips from experienced moms how to combine work and motherhood and it does not get crazy.
Do not seek to be perfect. It is better to accept the fact that all of you will still have time to fail. So forget about maintaining perfect cleanliness and order, at least for the next year. The desire to do everything "perfectly" able to bring to a neurosis even the most balanced of the fair sex.
Prioritize that for you today is particularly important, and the rest simply waving your arms. To avoid overgrown dirt, pay daily cleaning 15-30 minutes. Do not grasp at once for all. Separate apartment on the zone and devote every day just one: for example, on Monday you wash bathroom fixtures, on Tuesday put away in the kitchen, on Wednesday - in the room.
Stick to easy mode. Regime is not only important for the health and development of the baby, but also for the mother. By making it, you can always count on, for example, a couple of hours in the morning to wake the baby or lunch during sleep time, or after curfew. Proper time management will allow you to not only have time to work, and even find a little time for yourself. Of course, a trip to the fitness club or spa facilities no one says, but 15 minutes to shower, you certainly will be able to carve out.
Use the benefits of civilization. Automatic washing machine, dishwasher, robot vacuum cleaner - these and other wonders of technology are designed to free women from domestic troubles and a very cool, if you have the opportunity to acquire them. For example, such a miracle of technology, like multivarka is not very expensive and will cook lunch almost without your participation. Choose easy-to-prepare meals and simple recipes.
A simple job to do with the child, complicated - alone. On arms or in a sling from the crumbs is quite possible to do simple housework and respond to e letters, process images and perform other mechanical actions that do not require special concentration. And work on complex projects leave at the time when the baby is sleeping or busy with something.
Create a safe space and let the child to master it. Make your home safe: stoppers on the doors and windows, covers for outlets and the lack of accessible place electrical cords, household chemicals, cosmetics, documents and small items only on the upper shelves and t. d. All this, of course, take time and effort, but then do not have to not reduce to crumbs eyes, when he will begin to crawl and then walk.
Teach your child to occupy themselves. The child is important to see my mother, even when she is busy. Put your desktop in the children, toys that baby can occupy yourself alone, leave within reach. Scarce is calm, that his mother nearby and soon will be able to find something to do. Even very tiny baby is capable of some time to play alone. Besides the obvious things - dice sorter, books and other toys by age, should be fine pots, molds for cakes and other utensils that children can sort and sort enough long.
For older children, you can connect and "heavy artillery": a half hour-hour-per-view child Seat cartoon or take a suitable age razvivalkoy computer. When you are watching TV or sitting at the computer dosed, and you filter the information that gets crumbs harm such an occupation will not bring the child's health.
Appreciate the quality and not the quantity of time spent together. Do not blame yourself that you are a bad mother, and you do not have time for her own child, the situation will not change. When you perform some homework with the kid on hands, refer to the child, comment on everything that you do. Try to devote at least 15-30 minutes a day only child, without the distraction of television and social networks. Read a book, tell a story, sing a song, play into something. By the way, the simple rituals that you repeat every day, such as bedtime stories to soothe the child, give him a sense of confidence and strengthen the emotional bond between mother and baby.
Love yourself. Moms know how much effort requires routine and repetitive Groundhog Day. Take care of yourself, do not wave the hand on your health: eat right, walk in the fresh air, try to get enough sleep. It seems trivial, but a sound sleep, simple exercise, proper nutrition and daily exercise significantly increase energy levels. You can not afford a babysitter - invite her for at least two hours once a week, connect grandmother or neighbor. Take these few hours only to themselves, their hobbies, going to the spa or shopping. Do not feel guilty for having let himself keep the baby and pamper yourself. In the end, you do it for him. Only a happy mother can raise a happy child. Remember this!
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