What is different from the lucky unlucky? You may say that the differences - a lot. We are all at different stars are born, we have a different upbringing, education, and even karma. All these terms, of course, important, but... in any "base set" a happy man is still shot.
Yes, yes, the number of cones, which he has to fill in order to find yourself and your path to happiness. The smaller bumps, the sooner you begin to live like human beings - easily, freely, with pleasure.
How to reduce your own "shishkorezerv"? Follow the sound advice that tested the experience of many generations of happy people.
"Someday" - is today
We all make plans for happiness. And what is happiness? It is a fleeting feeling of bliss. Euphoria. And each of us a lot "of files" such feelings - small or large. Sit together by the fire, a glass of brut prohladnenko by candlelight, a new dress or a... tattoo, surprise visit to her parents - just with a cake.
The most wonderful moments that remain in the memory. And it makes no sense to plan a happy moment on the "someday" - he has already come.
Proceed in 72 hours
Enough to make plans and wait for the right moment. Do not forget that the brightest idea of "going out", if you do not start to implement them in the next 72 hours. Just get busy, and will make changes in the course of the play.
Do not try to bring happiness to everyone
Correctly joke: "If you're white and fluffy, then you on depilation and the solarium." Otherwise, it is really very difficult burden - to carry on their shoulders the load of happiness of everyone around you.
Not to dwell on their finances
And keep friends and enemies do not end up being. Money - a very strong energy, she unexpectedly strong "warms up" or "cools down" our relationship so that they "precipitate" and to continue their state will not return.
You can not change people
Even experienced psychologists only help people to change ourselves. And only if they want to.
People will use you if you allow it to them
It is important to understand the difference between kindness, compassion... and turning into a rag, wipe their feet on you.
Be water, not stone
Truth be told: "If you want to laugh Almighty, tell him your plans." Yes, our plans often wander in a completely different direction, and it is important to be flexible to do next, a little changing direction.
Better plan to upgrade than regular painful strike the stumbling block. Be water.
Do not turn in on themselves
Even if you're convinced an introvert, sometimes it is important to force yourself to communicate. Call, come to visit, write a nice message across in a social network. Nothing recharges us as communion. Remember, "In the beginning was the word ..."
We do not owe anything
Unless, of course, do not borrow money. Joke. But seriously, that squeeze out a drop of itself insidious guilt. And it's time to learn to distinguish between a situation where you simply use. A decent man or a good friend will not put pressure on the emotions. Otherwise - all in the garden!
Set personal boundaries
Just seems like Homa Brutus drew a circle around himself? Yes, only in psychological terms - there are so many "vampire." Sometimes it is not superfluous to set boundaries in relationships with parents. Not in all cases allowed to poke their noses.
Do not take life for granted
Alas, all that we love, everything seems so natural, it can disappear in an instant.
Oh, and take care! If health is something wrong, all the colors of life fade. So do not over-eat, play sports, love, and walk in the fresh air.
