Today's children need a mother-figure. time mothers who make "fake" authority, allowing the fumes to eat sweets (not yet slipnetsya), to watch cartoons frenzy, playing to the same condition on the computer or to arrange a demonstration in his room "pigsty" - passed. No, no and NO!
Permissiveness in the summary of Super-moms are not listed. This has a professional manager's quality, logistics, the psychologist, the chef... and in general - 5 key skills to the highest level.
FLY-LADY
If the mother is able to plan, then it has enough time to soup, apple pie, lessons with children and take the children in a circle and 3 on the music, manicures, pedicures and sewn buttons on shirts with a spouse. And this is only a small part of all that time to my mother, well-versed in time management. These moms are included in the category of "fly-Mom" - the flying mummies, who like 34 hours a day.
What's the secret? They plan to all-all-all the affairs of the days of the week, and even by the hour. That's a week or two, my mother knows that there is nothing impossible.
Multitasking
Super Mom is able to perform a number of roles: in fact, my mother, my wife, a colleague, a valuable employee, boss, friend, daughter, partner, salsa, etc. To find a balance - even the art. But if you know how to plan, such multitasking - a piece of cake. However, can not do without the valuable feminine flair.
CRISIS MANAGER
Oh yeah! Mothers who are raising more than one child, without this skill "resolve" children's disputes, quarrels and fights. Super Mom holds and can foresee a few minutes in my head "atlas" of children's conflicts, is about to "storm will break," and some of the children can get a machine in the head, so then takes measures.
No, not by the impact of "soft spot", and talking, explaining, convincing, hugging, praising - dosing all the elements in this educational "cocktail." And most importantly - my mother does not go on about the children. Because my mother - the main!
BOSS-DIRECTOR
More precisely, the mother - as the Parliament, the Cabinet and the president all rolled into one - makes laws and require their fulfillment. Of course, there are exceptions to the rule, for example, if a child is ill. And in all other situations, the rules apply throughout the territory of... individual flats. Practice shows that in such a "government" is not seen tantrums and strikes in young "people."
Yes, this is the "people" mom checks for durability and requires the removal of the "regime", but my mother rarely makes a "correction" in the family "constitution". If mom said "no", we need a strong argument that it changed its decision.
MOTIVATOR
Super Mom not to fixate on the problem. If something happens, it will immediately begin to seek a way out of this situation, and the "compliments" distribute then. For a mother solution - it is an opportunity to move forward and not stagnate, watching the melting of children self-esteem.
Animators OPTIMIZER
Super Mom even in stalemate always "for" their children. It is in any difficult situation is looking positive points or valuable lessons for the future and teaches children useful skill "to ripen at the root."
MOTHER - IN ACCESS
Even the status and adult mother did not erect a monument for himself and not bronzoveet inside - it is freely available to your child, especially if the children of something happened.
Super Mom distracted from the project of the century for a rocket launch to Mars or cooking borsch, sits next to her child and listen to him very carefully, remembering details and knowing what feels her favorite child. Because the child - this is her most precious project.
