Any person can be jealous, this is one of our natural environmental sense. There are white and black jealousy, envy can even go green, as they say. But much more useful to direct our energies in a positive manner and learn from envy to benefit their own benefit.
Any negative emotions are destructive, especially for the person who experiences them. Unfortunately, often we do not realize that the causes of many diseases and troubles in life you need to look at ourselves, our negative thoughts, emotions and actions. Envy - a negative, destructive feeling it evokes in us a storm of feelings and emotions, to cope with which it is very difficult. However, abuse and blame myself for it - not a solution either. Much better to turn a minus sign in sign plufrom, What it was black, to make white. And it is within our reach!
How to learn to turn negative energy into positive, removing the envy benefits for themselves and dramatically improve their lives?
Do not try on someone else's fate
One friend took a high position at work... Another husband constantly make expensive gifts... A third figure is better... How can you not envy? Do not try on someone else's life and destiny, everyone has his own way of life and its board for its gifts. You do not know what the price to be paid to each at one time or another twist in fate. It may be that your friend got a new expensive gift from her husband as an excuse for treason, abuse or assault, girlfriend, achieving career growth, donated warm relations in the family, and colleagues beautiful figure cost her a lot of strength and loss of health ...
Make envy stimulus for their own progress
Decide what is most envy and strive to make sure that the object of envy came into your life. There is a great saying Arnold Schwarzenegger: all regret the weak, the envy must be earned! Do so to envy you and your success - but you need to develop and work.
Do you want a perfect figure - work out and stick to the rules of good nutrition. Do not like the looks - sign up to the beautician, make a fashionable hairstyle, pick up stylish clothes. Would you like to have more money - think about changing jobs for better-looking for their strengths and develop them is picking up the change, to move in this direction.
Reformat the envy of joy
Always remember about the law of the boomerang - it will send into space, then you get back only a few times more. Sent anger - were in response to a hundred times more negative in their lives, sent good - got a hundred times more prosperity, health, wish fulfillment. If you feel jealousy, do not succumb to negative, turns it into good. Envy is good, feeling happy for the other person. The universe is large, if it has found a benefit to another person, always there for you! Like fashion handbag girlfriend (a new car, an apartment, a cool phone)? Mentally wish myself the same, even better, sincere smile girlfriend and make her a compliment. The energy of strong emotions can work wonders!
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