He came; Maybe you ate cooked first, second and even drank compote; spoke about the nerd boss and a new girlfriend, best friend, played in the "tanks", he gave you a nice sex ads to your favorite music, in the morning, as usual, went to the trivial, "Well, so long, until the evening!" You like to steam and is almost family but marriage proposal all not.
The question is, why? Experienced in family matters version of the site kolobok.uaHe knows at least 12 reasons for such a "consumer" behavior of men.
He is already married
You can know this and wait for the favorite, finally, after all throw their "grymza" priskachet to you on a white horse with a diamond ring in a box, the passion in his heart and a proposal on the lips. Hmm, if the story lasts more than a year and so far only in the status of passionate declarations before the soup, or sex, and you still have not submitted it to friends, acquaintances, relatives, - draw your own conclusions.
And if he has positioned himself as a free man in his prime, but now and then surprises you posted sores in children's and women's underwear size, take a look at the case of a loved one in the passport in his accounts in social networks. Perhaps to make himself a "discovery". There were times when the free loving eagle turned out to be her lawful husband and father of three children, a hero, and the city has moved to work and regularly every month send the family money.
You - a fallback
Many ambitious men has a "bench". He is waiting for the same one that will be the realization of his dreams - 90-60-90, fifth the size of the breast, legs, a Brazilian priest and Other bonuses - and while such a diva is not met on his way, he is a pleasure to spend time with pretty good clever. That is, with you. Especially, if you interesting to talk even about the prospect of impeachment Trump, though an allusion to the Buñuel, though about string theory or the Dow Jones under delicious, you just cooked dinner.
You look like his ex
He was having an affair, he parted with a young lady that was inadequate hysterical, spender, slut, in general, the horror, the horror. And then I met with you - sensible and cheerful young lady, but... you have the same as hers, eye color, Hair-like figure, you will also enjoy a cappuccino in the morning and wear a turban from a towel on his head after soul. As a result, he was constantly flinches when you - in a turban and a cup of coffee - find yourself in close proximity.
He heals old wounds
Some of our valiant "brother" daughters of Eve (little among us stinkers, "vampire" and the notorious "witch") so your wounded cute angel in the heart, he is still licking old wounds and moving in romantic relationships, both in the swamp... Given that he makes small steps and in front of each every time a stick trying to bottom, a lot of time is needed for the rehabilitation of love.
Relations are developing on the "old" format
The people we love - our mirror. Simply put, we are your favorite people so that we better know yourself and understand with what kind of person we will be fine in life, and who we do not come.
Not everyone understands this, so they often fall in love with the same type of people with whom they are absolutely not on the road in his personal life. Relations from time to time reach the "critical point" and go into a dive... It is possible that your favorite with whom you have recently had a passion, I suddenly realized that these new relations are developing along the same "Trajectory".
He had little money
Very popular reason. He's decent, conscious, that is, aware that family life requires investment - apartment, utilities, food, gifts to favorite his wife and children still go... In general, the favorite said that while he did not earn his first million, to offer his hand and heart, he just does not rights. Especially, if you are now and then implying that every girl has to be elegant wedding.
He does not want to be son in law
He does not want to have another mom in principle - "mother in law" with which he was familiar, and she has already started its educate or be used as a cab to the country, a porter in the bazaar, "assistant" or "dishwasher" to kitchen. It is possible that your dad is too active in communication and the decline of the future son-tasting home-brew and fishing trips that your boyfriend does not digest.
He values the opinion of friends
A friend his ears buzzed with questions: what he found you? Especially if you are very zealous decided to make an object of passion, "man", that is, pulled out of the favorite company football fans and beer or to those players as "tanchiki", dressed up in a suit and tie and has taught and fork knife.
The man usually suffers a "transformation" is still strong passion. But while passion is limited, and the prospect of once again put on your favorite jeans, a T-shirt with humorous print and drink beer at the match "with our Nenashev" becomes more and more attractive ...
You are too intrusive
Part of the reasons you can read in the preceding paragraph. And in addition - to find out that yesterday a free man barely tolerate even the beloved 24/7, even more so if it is too intrusive brings to life the men their rules. He loves the smoked chicken, and you insist on vegetarianism and eating wheat germ in the morning.
And this talk about a handbag, new boots, secretary-fool, tingling in his side, a new masseuse, sale of perfumes, the best-selling in the premiere weekend, the weather in Zimbabwe... and so every evening. Brain favorite ready to burst.
he is an introvert
Or maybe even a sociopath (hello, Sheldon Cooper!), And even the fact that you are sitting next to him on the couch, causing him stress and reseated on the "free territory". He does not share a meal, does not like to cuddle, does not allow to put your toothbrush in his cup in the bathroom, not because he is greedy - it just works. The prospect of seeing you every day, waking up in the same bed and sit at a table it is frightening. While frightening.
He too loves order
There are such perfectionists-aesthetes, for which the order of the apartment, on the desktop, in the cupboard - the factor of internal harmony. In this case, even thrown on the floor in a fit of passion thong will cost you at least, in a disdainful look after sex. And if you do and shred it in the kitchen or left dirty cup near a laptop ...
He does not love you
Let's be honest. This is probably the main reason why the man even thought not admit that to lead you down the aisle. For a young man of modern formations marriage itself is akin to the type of recklessness parachute jump from the stratosphere or climb Mount Everest. For such an act need passion, like a madness and obsession.
And you give him just like you - because you are dear, good, kind, and generally wonderful. But Everest for your sake he will not climb. Well, it is not necessary. This - not climb, and the other - it is even ready.
