Our children - our happiness. But how to make happy their own? Devote much time? Buy toys? Care? Only that's not enough. What you need to tell the child that he felt happy?
It is necessary to make it clear to your child that you love him and will always be there. That his opinion is important to you and you will support him in any situation. That's all we can say in simple words, just do not forget to say them out loud. Memorize these phrases and say them eachday.
"It is good that you ask us questions!". Encourage your child's curiosity, and he grows a man with an inquiring mind and a wonderful imagination.
"How can I help you?". Always offer to help. And this applies not only to help the kids. Teenagers are more often need mom and dad, but they often hesitate to say so.
"And what would you like to do now?". You should not only command and educate, but also interested in the views of the child.
"What do you think about this?". Let the child know that you care his thoughts and feelings.
"Do not worry, if you make a mistake."
If the child will arise a fear of mistakes, he does not want to do something. And furthermore, if he understands that his actions could cause the wrath of Mom or Dad."Every time you get better." Even if you think that the child writes one kalyaki - encourage him with kind words. If he will try to get better and better each time he really will be obtained.
"Do not worry, if you now difficult. You will cope with it! ". No need to tell the child how to easily do something. Understand that some familiar to you the process can be really difficult for your baby.
"I see you try." Let the child know that you appreciate his efforts.
"You have a very capable." All the kids extremely talented. Do not forget to reinforce their belief in themselves.
"I love when you smile." Give your child understand that his smile - a real joy for parents.
"You have such a dreamer!". Grow creative person. Give your child understand that dream and invent stories - it's good.
"You're a very good friend". Pay attention to how the child friendly. Not only point out the mistakes but praise for good deeds.
"I just told my grandmother how you try." Praise your child, be sure to tell me about his achievements to everyone who might be interested.
"Always be yourself." Grow a person who is not afraid of something different from the rest. Explain to your child that people are different, and that's good.
"I love you, no matter what." Even if the child pushed the other. Even if you broke your favorite vase mom. You can get angry and tell him that angry, explain what he is wrong. But be sure to say that you will not love him less than ever, and for nothing.
"You are very beautiful. And from the outside and inside. " Explain to the child what is inner beauty. And how important it is.
"You have a very talented!". Appreciate if the child something succeeds. Always praise him for it.
"Thank you very much". Do not hesitate to once again praise the child, even if he just handed you a thing. A good word is always nice.
"I am always with you". Telling a child that phrase, you give him to understand that he is always, at any moment and at any age can count on your help and support. Always stay close to your children.
"Please forgive me". Do not be afraid to apologize if you do something wrong. Otherwise, your child may be left an unpleasant aftertaste in my soul and feeling great resentment. And simply apply the right example, if you want a son or daughter up worthy people.
"What a great idea!". Keep your child's endeavors and talk to him about what you like. Be sincere, kids really can come up with something very creative.
"I love you!". This is the simplest and also the most important phrase. Do not forget to tell her child every day.
As you can see, everything is simple. This is not an exhaustive list of phrases that can make a child happy. Complete this small dictionary with their expressions and do not forget to tell them at every opportunity. Love your children !.
Also be sure to ask about any offensive phrases from childhood we are talking to your children