It is no secret that women are more willing to share their emotions with others than men. And it is not surprising that and help to solve their psychological problems to specialists usually look exactly representative of the beautiful half of humanity.
But this does not mean that this kind of male problems occur less frequently. They just try to solve them on their own or turn off heartache with friends and strong drinks. Although psychologists point: more and more often to their consultation are couples, but the initiator of such a therapy usually perform all the same women. Each request - is different, everyone has their own problem and its pain. Still, you can make a list of issues that ladies often turn to a psychologist.
1. Love, family and well-being in private life - a very important area for most women. And it is quite logical that about 40% of the requests for help is connected with intersexual relations. This difficulty with the choice of partner, and doubts have already made the choice, confusion, coldness and inability to make contact with her husband, own jealousy, irritability and aggression, treachery and consumer favorite (physical and psychological) violence.
2. The next most popular (but much rarer) - problems associated with the attitude to yourself and study of complexes. Most often it is "greetings" from childhood. Self-doubt, low self-esteem, a sense of failure. Also often it is again associated with men. In our culture, a woman who is not in a relationship, it is difficult to feel the integrity and value.
3. On the third place issues related to raising children. In his quest to become good mothers, women come for advice: how to deal with children's tantrums, aggression, and fears, how to establish a relationship with a teenager and cope with their own negative emotions and irritation to the address child.
4. Women come to the expert, to find a way out of an emotionally heavy conditions - fear and depression. it is usually this: the woman long endure an uncomfortable situation for her, accumulates negative, and when it becomes unbearable, ask for help to a psychologist or therapist. Fears are quite different: the most common fear of death (or their relatives), a closed or open space, darkness, persecution, disease and germs, public speaking. Common are various forms of depression:, when all indifferent and nothing pleases. Against the backdrop of all these emotional experiences often occur and physical illnesses, ailments and diseases.
5. Also, women often seek the problem of "love triangle". And no matter what role she takes in it - the wife or mistress - she feels in this situation is not comfortable. It is also the cause of treatment may be their own infidelity to her husband and contradictory feelings that are connected with it.
6. The next most popular treatment associated with divorce and the completion of the marital or romantic relationshipsWhich is always painful and are often associated with a decrease in self-esteem and a negative vision of the future.
7. Such as the treatment "Tangled in itself," "do not know what I want out of life" - is also not uncommon. Difficulties in identity, the search for meaning in life, doubts about the choice of profession, place of work. With that such inquiries are often treated women successfully held in a career in some critical moments of his life.
8. Difficulties in relationships with parents, Conflicts, irritability, aggression, guilt, agonizing psychological dependence, often associated with his mother - in eighth place on the frequency of references.
9. Difficulties in relationships with others, Friends and colleagues at work, difficulties in communication, loneliness, conflicts.
10. Experiencing the pain of loss associated with the death of a spouse, parents or children. In such cases, the psychologist helps to cope with feelings of guilt and other destructive emotions that arise after the loss of a loved one.
