Eyes shining, the heart flies out of his chest, and the words and thoughts are confused, but you clearly understand that this is a man you like and you want to get to know him. But how? Before you 5 proven ways to help you start connecting with the pleasant stranger.
Women sometimes just a few minutes to fall in love, and in his mind to lose the whole life scenario, from dating to name children together. Whatever it was, if you feel that this man is cute you do not ask for advice from friends and act. There are men who love bold women, and sometimes can be a little bit to play along.
Start a conversation.Why spend time on the suffering and experiences proceed. If you do not know what to say, or worried that you will look stupid, you tell the truth: "Young man, you are very nice to me, we can talk to you?". If you are not confident, shy or afraid to be disappointed, it's time to start working with their systems, and self-esteem. According to statistics, 90% of men, to whom she will approach this proposal, will not give up, and happy to get acquainted. The remaining 10% can be cutting and rude, but rather because of the unexpected and bad manners, so do not lose the power of speech, say something like: "Oh, you're talking and I realized that I was wrong." Do not waste your time and energy on the boors, but also do not sit idly by, life is an unpredictable thing, and who knows, maybe from you elude your destiny, it's time to grab it by the tail.
Common interests. If you know the habitat of the object of your sympathy, then for sure you will be able to face him in any natural relaxed atmosphere, the coffee machine, for example, if you work together, or gym. This is a great option, you do not have to blush and stammer something to ask, just start talking, ask for help, ask for advice. For example, ask what coffee tastes or how to properly use the machine, improvise. Discreet communication brings together and in the end a young man sure you introduce yourself and ask about your name.
"I'm sorry, I accidentally".How many happy couples formed by the fact that someone accidentally stepped on the foot or slightly crushed in the subway, public transport - a great place to get acquainted with the liked man, because there is a risk it will never not see. Create random, but try to make it look the most natural, show all their creative skills. A man sits at a table and there are no more places, asked to join him and drink coffee together. Most importantly, be relaxed, confident and configured to execute the planned but chase is not worth a man, if he once gave you to understand, that he was not interested in communication, not better imposed.
Ask friends.This is the easiest and most effective way, but it works only when you have some mutual friends and acquaintances. In general, it is the most effective way to meet the man and the practice shows that before the advent of social networks, the most common way of dating.
Social networks.Internet flooded modern people, is now easier to meet with a girl on Facebook than sitting next to him in the subway, but this method also works well. If you know the name of a man you like (if not, a woman capable of much to learn her missing information) or his place of work, perhaps hobbies, look for his page on social networks and write him. It is neither shameful nor embarrassing, also for a smartphone or a computer screen, you will not see, but it adds boldness. Begin to correspond, make friends, and there is already the case in your hands and feel.
The main thing is not to get hung up, and in any case not lower the hands, if you are refused, there cad per dozen decent and polite man, then you just have not met her. Go for it!
Also be sure to ask about why a man ignores the woman, who he likes