Men are different, some of them difficult to build a long and happy relationship, so it is important to recognize at once that something was wrong. Even if you fall in love without memory, look at the situation soberly, and not draw in the imagination of the wedding ceremony. So, what men should avoid?
It is always important to understand that the man, whom you see now in front of him will never change. Do you hear? Never. Or after the wedding, nor after birth. This fact must be considered when evaluating all the advantages and disadvantages of a potential partner.
Sissy.He calls every hour his mother advised her on every occasion, every weekend dines with her and was referred to as "mamulichka"? Run. With the man who is entirely dependent on his mother, at a mature age, a strong relationship is not built, sooner or later you get tired compete-in-lawfor the love of her husband. Maybe, of course, that he is looking for a new "mother", but it is also not the best role for a woman, unless you want to see next to a defenseless child, whose problems you always have solve.
Vulnerable.Such men are very emotional, sensitive and vulnerable, they are going through difficult past relationships and ruptures. Do not be surprised, you will feel that you are no longer two, but three, because your life will always present the history and the stories of his ex-girlfriends. He will always compare you to them. The future - it's not about him, these men draw their energy in their suffering and in lived experience, constantly delving into memories. Not the best for a happy union.
Party-goer.They possess magnetism, attractive appearance and a great sense of humor, you're likely to meet him at a club or some fashionable coterie. A man far beyond 30, but he does not even want to talk about it, considering himself a youngster: night clubs, parties, computer games, in general, everything that is not "ship" head. Psychologists call this the Peter Pan syndrome. Such a person will never change and do not settle down, do not amuse ourselves with illusions, he did not need a family and serious relationship, his soul is required of fun and entertainment.
Bad guy.In the life of any good girl is a bad boy, because it is impossible not to fall in love. They and attracts with its charm and sultry-minded, but be careful. From the relationship with such a man hardly it will be something serious, because you never can learn it through. Such a relationship can often be characterized by the phrase "the love - hate speech" because the bad guys like variety, so is unlikely to be true to one woman for a long time.
Confirmed bachelor. At first glance, here it is - the perfect future husband: smart, educated, handsome and successful, but why is it then still one? Perhaps it is so comfortable, it is cozy feeling and without a relationship and does not aspire to them. In addition, a man who lived a long time and he was left to himself, it is difficult to establish a joint life and stand close to a woman, so it is often all quickly comes to an end.
Ladies' man.In his hands there is always the trump card, which fell to the felling any woman. He has to look beautiful: an expensive car, a gourmet restaurant, plenty of flattery and compliments. But be careful and do not fall for its devious hook! All that he needs is to have sex with you, as soon as the goal is achieved, the behavior of this man will change dramatically. Most likely, it will simply disappear from your life by changing your phone number.
Narcissus.It is a very insidious type of men, but it can be recognized fairly quickly. Typically, on the first date, he says, only about themselves, because no one but yourself, in principle, he is not able to love. He will interrupt you if you suddenly dare to talk about themselves and their problems, because it is not interesting. If you suddenly find yourself in a relationship with the narcissistic type, be prepared for the fact that it is limited your circle of contacts and freedom, will oversee each step, so that all your time and attention to battered his. Run now!
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