Each child is experiencing some difficulties when it come to life rules and prohibitions.
Some capricious, others start to cry. The task of parents as accurately as possible explain to the child, which means "no".
Mom and Dad are faced with the reluctance of a son or daughter to take and understand the ban. On this basis, starting conflicts and scandals. Psychologists are advised to follow a few rules in education:- Do not put too many restrictions. Let they will apply only to objects and actions that can threaten health.
- Prohibitions should be permanentDo not use the word "no", for example, at the time of purchase of the products. Today you tell your child that he can not be sweet, and tomorrow buy, saying its same rule.
Note that the word "impossible", as a rule, does not act on a child the first time.
Many parents have to explain why it is impossible to repeat the same thing several times. To teach a child to follow the rules, it is necessary to exercise maximum patience.
Importantly, the tone will be told the word "can not", psychologists are advised to use harsh, harsh tone, but in no case do not raise your voice. Explain why you can not, you should, on the contrary, quietly and smoothly. Do not hurt your baby's hands and make sure that the ban has been agreed with the child's father.
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