Test: choose a bear and find out what kind of mom you are

For women, a bear is their portrait as a mother. Therefore, mothers can see themselves from the outside. And women who do not have children can find out in advance about their behavior in this status.

Psychologist Olga Perekopayko gave the key to the test.

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1 If the bear is sleeping, then your maternal image is light and unobtrusive. Her den may not be the tidiest, but there you will always be welcomed so that you can curl up in complete safety and enjoy the rest. Sometimes in this house you can see violent outbursts of emotions, but more often there is peace.

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2 If the bear is scary, then the mother appears to be a powerful force. Perhaps even one that takes over the whole house. All mothers want only the best for their children, but some are particularly demanding in this matter. It can also be assumed that in this case it is the mother who is the protector of the entire family. Or maybe everything is much simpler: at the moment you just had a fight with your mother, and she loudly expressed her emotions.

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The idealized image of the mother

3 She-bear with cubs - this is an option when a mother leads her children all her life. But at times it is still worth remembering that children grow up, and they need to become independent, which means they need to become adults. You shouldn't patronize them all the time. Sometimes it is necessary to let them float freely.

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4 Teddy bear shows that the mother is not necessarily the most reliable and responsible person. Although she is so sweet and charming that it is simply impossible not to love her. No matter how much she wants to play the role of "dear mommy", it seems that most often it is not her children who have to take care of, but they are about her.

Such mothers subconsciously even like to be sick in order to feel cared for. Often the voice of a mother (at any age) can sound childish. These mothers need to try to balance their inner states of adult and child, and perhaps even add more responsibility to their actions.

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