Gemini child: how to raise a baby "two in one"

If your child was born or is just planning to be born under the sign of Gemini, get ready for the fact that you will have to raise a desperate fidget. This is a small wind that is everywhere and everywhere, and at times can turn into a real hurricane. It is not for nothing that Gemini belongs to the element of Air. Such children are changeable, fickle, wayward and very freedom-loving. It is almost impossible to "restrain" them and therefore cannot be left unattended. And their irrepressible energy constantly needs to be directed into some kind of creative channel. With such a child it will definitely not be easy for you, but there is also a plus: Gemini always keep their parents in good shape and make them feel many years younger.

Gemini child: developmental features

Gemini baby will be a real rip-off / istockphoto.com

The main thing that you need to be ready for with Gemini is very active guys with good physical development. As a rule, they start crawling, walking, talking early. Such activity, combined with Gemini's irrepressible curiosity, is a real bomb. You cannot leave such a child unattended even for a minute: he immediately begins to take, grab, examine, touch and study everything. It is very important from a young age to take his time and direct energy in the right direction. These are exactly the children who are shown active activities, many circles and sections of a very different orientation. The twins catch everything on the fly. From childhood, they can be safely given to dancing, swimming, roller skating, to the pool or theatrical circle.

It should be borne in mind that Gemini children are restless and excitable. They are not only very mobile physically, but also have a lively active mind. Therefore, in childhood, they will often find it difficult to fall asleep. Such a child needs the most relaxed environment before bedtime. No scary stories, TV or computer games. A couple of hours before bedtime, it is recommended to take a bath, read a book, listen to a fairy tale.

Gemini are very sociable children who get to know each other easily and quickly find a common language with everyone. They often make contact first, start dating themselves, and are ready to leave the yard out of curiosity, without even warning their parents. Therefore, from early childhood, they need to be taught the rules of safety in dealing with strangers. Accidents when kidnappers lured a child with a candy or called to show a kitten, with a high degree of probability, can happen with Gemini.

Gemini child: personality traits

Gemini love to cheat and fantasize / istockphoto.com

 "Classic" Gemini is a child who is quite calculating and naughty. From early childhood, he shows his character, loves to act in his own way. This is not a pronounced leader, but this is definitely not the kind of child who can be controlled. Gemini can be good manipulators and try to benefit from any situation. If this child needs something, he can very easily achieve it. If he doesn't want something, he will definitely figure out how to evade it. Therefore, it is very important to be on the alert with such children all the time.

These kids often can and love to lie, embellish or, on the contrary, understate. Therefore, it is very important to teach a child to tell the truth. For this you need to be an honest parent yourself. The more honest you are with your child, the better he will understand that lying in communication with you is inappropriate. In addition, you need to properly respond to children's lies. Not to close my eyes to this and not to punish me anymore, but to explain that this is not correct and is very upsetting to loved ones. This is not a one-day, but a long process, but if you are persistent and consistent, you will achieve honesty from the Gemini.

These are very restless and impatient children. Therefore, perseverance must be delicately developed. At the same time, one should not rush to extremes and send the child to circles that require long and painstaking work. A classical piano game for a child is definitely not suitable. He will be more likely to enjoy activities related to the manifestation of creativity - theater studio (the twins are wonderful actors), drawing, poetry, journalism. However, be prepared for the fact that the circle does not take Gemini for a long time. By nature, such children need a constant change of impressions, so they often give up a job that is no longer of interest to them.

Gemini Child: Relationship with Parents

Parents should be an authority for Gemini / istockphoto.com

Gemini children are often not very attached to their parents. You should be prepared that in the future your child will most likely leave the parent's nest early, go away, and, at best, will visit you from time to time. This is not your fault: Gemini are generally not prone to strong attachments. Even in friendship, they are fickle, and easily change comrades depending on the situation and mood. Some coldness, prudence and selfishness of Gemini can greatly hurt parents, but this must be approached calmly and wisely. If you earn the trust of a child from early childhood, your relationship can be strong enough in the future.

Raising a Gemini child it is very important to be an authority and a friend for him. Not a strict parent who forbids everything and tries to control the child, but a devoted companion who can be trusted. You cannot command this sign, you need to explain everything to him. It is very important to get at least some trust from the child, so that in the future he will consult with you. Otherwise, he will do a lot of things behind your back that you will not even know about. It is important to remember: if the Gemini child does not see authority in the parents, he may start looking for him in other people and find himself different, sometimes completely indigestible idols.

Keep in mind that at an older age, these children love when their parents are aware of the latest trends, and you can discuss something with them. The more modern parents you are, the higher you stand in the Gemini rating and the more authority you can count on. It is very important, when communicating with Gemini, to be on the same wavelength with them. It is an incredible feeling that will keep you a little teenager at all times.

Gemini child: attitude towards learning

Gemini lacks patience and perseverance in their studies / istockphoto.com

Learning is easy for Gemini and without stress. They are often very quick-witted and smart, they grasp everything the first time. However, their quick, lively and active mind provokes some distraction and inattention to detail. This is another skill that you need to develop from childhood in Gemini. These children are rarely excellent students, but only because they themselves do not strive for it. They do it if they like it and don't do it if they don't like it. Therefore, you are unlikely to force them to learn something. At the same time, Gemini has a phenomenal short-term memory, due to which they often "leave" on tests and exams. They can very quickly memorize a large amount of information, get an assessment and immediately forget everything safely.

Gemini, as a rule, are very fond of reading and grow up to be real book lovers. However, for this, it is very important for parents to instill in their child a love of reading at an early age. Show by example: read a lot yourself, and also read a lot and constantly to the child. The right books will help develop Gemini's tendencies in a good way. In childhood, such children are very fond of books from the series "All about everything", where there are many questions and answers from various spheres of life.

At school, Gemini always becomes the life of the party. They love attention and recognition, they love to be aware of everything. By the way, Gemini, because of their charisma and infectious addiction, are often imitated by classmates. They can be called the ideological inspirers of their peers. However, they are not ready to take on the role of a leader. Because leadership is responsibility, and Gemini tries to avoid responsibility in every possible way.

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