The decree is over: how to prepare the child for the mother to go to work?

Three years of the decree fly by like an instant, and mom needs to go to work. And even if this is an expected and quite joyful event, the fear of parting with a child cannot be avoided. After all, before that you were 24/7, and everything was under control.

Don't panic

How will the baby take your absence? How will the adaptation to garden? Will the changes in family mood be affected? The mother of fears has a wagon and a small cart. However, don't forget that children are small scanners. They read your mom's mood at lightning speed, and your anxiety can play a cruel joke.

Preparing the soil

Begin the psychological preparation of the child in advance. Ideally, a couple of months before going to work. Tell us what changes await your family, how your child's day will go without you, what he will do, and most importantly, what you will do together when you return from work. Do it in a positive and joyful way - as if a great celebration awaits you all.

"Matchmaking" the garden

If your child goes to the garden, then you must visit him. Try to "match" the garden to the child. Tell us how cool it is, take a tour, play. Do everything so that the child gets positive emotions and is ready to return to the institution again. It is best to make such visits as often as possible.

Choosing games

Play hide-and-seek. This old simple game will teach your child that mom may not always be there. The child learns to be without you and not be afraid of loneliness.

Covering the separation

When a baby breaks up with his mother, an abyss opens up for him. We can bridge this distance using so-called bridges. It can be your photograph, a toy from the house, mother's necklace - whatever is associated with you. Let the child carry these things in a pocket.

In touch

Do not forget to mention that the child can call you, turn on the video call. You are always in touch and glad to hear him.

Don't leave silently

In the early days, start early in the morning. The child may not let go of you, it will take time to talk and hug. Explain that you have a job and something to do. Try to break up on a positive note. Don't sneak out of the house.

Evening after work

At first, after returning from work, give your child all your attention. Evening rituals, hugs, conversations - nourish the love for the next working day. It is important for children to be heard.

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