Do not confuse
Measures to make the child behave and fulfill their obligations should not be punishment.We are talking about both verbal punishments and physical ones.
Do not scare
The child should not be afraid, so we leave all threats outside the door.
You can't tell the kid that in case of his mistake, a monster will appear or he will be sent to an orphanage. By doing this, you traumatize the child and make him think that his parents do not value his personality, but only his actions.
Do not encourage
Children may misbehave to get their parents' attention. This happens especially often with those children who grew up in conditions of strict upbringing and analysis of their bad deeds into atoms. Gradually, the child develops an understanding that parents spend most of their time with him after he does something wrong or makes family members angry.Be one
Since you have begun to discipline, then be one with your spouse.
Do not let the authority of one parent suffer in the eyes of the child because of the actions of the other.
Recall
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