Many moms blame themselves for being "bad." We tell today which mothers can actually claim such a title.
Here's when you might consider yourself a really bad mom.
1. You scold a child for the truth
It turns out that he is scolded in any case - but if you skillfully lie, then a little less. This encourages lying rather than telling the truth.
2. Rarely hug
The child needs emotional support from the mother. With any busyness, you need to find time to hug the child and put him on the arms.
3. Compare with others
Why compare your child with any other? There is no competition between them! Praise your child for achievements over himself, and do not compare with strangers.4. Devalue feelings
Everyone has the right to whine, have fun, be sad, express other emotions. The task of parents is to mirror these emotions, not to process them. For example, to sound the child's actions: "you are crying", "you are upset", "you are offended, I understand" - be surprised what your child's reaction will be. The main thing is to speak in an affirmative, not an interrogative form.
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