Each baby is unique, and so is his mother. But all the mothers are ashamed for the same things.
1. The mess in the house
This does not mean that you are too lazy to put things in order. You are just too lazy to do it several times an hour, 7 days a week.
If in general you are trying to keep the house clean and tidy, you are already great.
2. Wrong food
And let the moms on the playground talk as much as they want about steamed cutlets on a pillow of broccoli puree. Everyone knows that sometimes a child dines on pizza, and outside the house has a snack of fast food.
Yes, this is not useful and should be as little as possible in the child's diet. But this is done by almost all parents who want to save at least a little time and nerves (and eat something harmful themselves).
3. Lack of walking
Walking on the street is useful for both mothers and children. But if for some reason you missed this ritual - that's okay, don't blame yourself.
The reasons may be different - a tired mother, capricious children, unbearable child behavior on the street, lack of sleep, blockage at work, etc. - but just remember that it's okay to miss a walk.4. Child brushing
Very few children obediently allow their teeth to be brushed - we mean children under 3 years old (sometimes even older). It's not like 3 minutes - just hold out for 30 seconds and somehow tinker with a brush in the baby's mouth.
It is definitely not worth bringing the child and yourself to hysteria, keeping it by force. The best way is persuasion, attempts to distract, example of mom / dad / brother / sister, etc.
Yes, it won't work right away, but one day it will. If the baby does not abuse sugar, then nothing terrible should happen to the teeth until that time.
5. Cartoons
And yes, not for 5-10 minutes, but much longer. For coffee, soup, and (yes) scrolling through social media. This is the easiest way to reboot for moms and dads.
Although absolutely everyone is ashamed of him.
6. Lack of makeup, hair and outfit
If your daily routine includes a 3-hour stroll with a stroller or a 1.5-hour sandpit sitting, then it would be strange to dress up and do some makeup on this occasion.
Moms spend a lot of time on the street and in the most unpredictable circumstances. run around clinics and pharmacies, cope with tantrums and whims.Therefore, clothes and shoes should be comfortable (and not easily soiled), hairstyle should not interfere with following the child, makeup should not remain on your face when you collapse on your bed in the evening.
7. Mat with a child
Yes, swearing at a kid of any age is very bad. Even without knowing the meaning of the word, the child absolutely always feels its negative meaning and your emotions at this moment.
But there are situations when you are so angry or in so much pain that the word comes first - and then the thought of its harm.
Well, it happens to everyone, and everyone, in an amicable way, should be ashamed of it.
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