5 very unfortunate reasons to have a baby

And now let's talk about the reasons that can ruin your life for you, your partner or... yourself to kid.

Children are the meaning of life

Of course, for many it is, but if you do not feel such a desire, it is early to have a child. Lost the meaning of life? Then see a therapist rather than thinking about pregnancy to solve mental problems.

For a child to love you

The love of the child and the mother is limitless and does not require conditions. But, you see, giving birth to a man so that he loves you... is rather selfish. The child should not act as a means of treating the mother's mental wounds, and the baby cannot be responsible for the emotional state due to its tender age.

It is the mother who is responsible for the upbringing, protection and comfort of the child.

Because the partner wants

Firstly, it is desirable to listen to yourself first of all, the partner, of course, has the right to vote, but in percentage ratio, his opinion means less than the opinion of the expectant mother - after all, she will have to bear more responsibility.

Secondly, friends, colleagues, aunts, mothers and fathers are generally superfluous in this matter, you definitely shouldn't ask them.

To save the marriage

The reason is bad - because neither the child nor anything else will save the marriage, except for the love and desire of the partners to give themselves a second chance.

in fact, a child is an additional test, for a family that is already bursting at the seams, it can become fatal.

Then it will be too late

If you are not on the verge of menopause, you should not think about having a baby for this reason. Women begin to think that it will soon be too late at the age of 25, and this is completely wrong. Not everyone is ready for motherhood by default, so don't be afraid to wait.

Recall

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