Relationships are the responsibility of two. As well as mistakes. Fortunately, you can get rid of them if you understand what the problem is prematurely.
Pull the blanket over yourself
Of course, there must be equality in a relationship. Otherwise, it will already be a toxic relationship. But girls often take too much responsibility on themselves, leaving the guy behind. Thus, you not only burden yourself, but also belittle the guy's masculine qualities. Trust me, he doesn't want to be weak in your eyes. Learn to trust him and transfer part of the obligations into his hands.
Manic control
Control also breeds distrust. Because of him, you try to follow the guy's movements, his meetings and even thoughts. Stop! Relationships are not all you have in life. And if so, then you urgently need to correct this situation. The fact is that, alas, not all relationships continue until the last days of your life. Therefore, it is very foolish to concentrate your whole life only around them. Give each other space. This will only benefit your relationship.
Pity for a man
If you show pity for a man, you show your insecurity in him. Moreover, the man himself will develop this feeling in himself. After all, he wants to look manly in your eyes. And if you look at him through the prism of pity, then there will be nothing left of courage. Don't confuse pity and support. It is better to get rid of the first one forever, and the second to do as often as possible.
Desire to change partner
It is also a common mistake many girls make in relationships. If you enter into a relationship, but something bothers you, do not start this relationship. The point is, people don't change. Also under pressure from someone. In such cases, on the contrary, they tend to withdraw even more into themselves. Learn to accept the negative sides of a person so that later you do not suffer because of your own choice.
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