What phrases should be refrained from in order not to destroy the fragile harmony of the marriage union?
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The relationship should be a kind of team, if someone alone allowed a mistake, the other should support him, and not poke his nose rather brutally into the failure.The psychologist wrote in the book
Reading books is a good way to prepare yourself for raising a child, but remember that both parents must raise a baby.
If the husband has his own view on some nuance, he has the right to disagree with the psychologist from the book, and you want consider both opinions, giving the father the necessary credit of confidence, because he definitely wants to do the maximum well!
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He doesn't behave like that to me
It has been proven that children can use different models of behavior with people, including parents. You shouldn't boast that your child doesn't do this to you. It will be much better to figure out why the baby gives unnecessary trouble to one of the parents, and in the presence of the other remains obedient.
Did you try to put him to bed?
A night with a small child is a burden for parents, so refrain from giving valuable guidance on how the father should have acted to put the baby to bed. You can talk about this in the morning, after sleeping.You need to clean your apartment more thoroughly
And again, psychologists recommend refraining from reproaches, you know that young children can turn a cleaned apartment into chaos in 10 minutes.
There is always an alternative to rude remarks.
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