The older we get, the less we believe in miracles. As a child, it seems to us that it is enough to wave a magic wand - as everything that you ask for will be immediately fulfilled.
A wish not yours and belongs to other people
"I want my daughter to become an excellent student," "I want my friend to ask me for forgiveness," etc. The desire should be only yours, you should not name anyone else. The goal should be personal. Make wishes in the form of a statement: "I have enough time to spend it pleasantly with my daughter."
You yourself do not believe in the possibility of fulfilling your desire
Objectives must be achievable. For example, if your desire is for weight, then start with lower numbers. Set a goal to lose 5 kg in 3 months. Set goals gradually, turn them into short-term tasks. And then in a year you will see how much you have managed to do.
You just desire, not prescribe a goal
If you wish to go to new job, write a plan - what knowledge you need additionally, what qualities you want to develop in yourself, etc.
A desire, formed into a goal, can be fulfilled within a year. A fantasy never be executed.
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You have not guessed exactly what you need
Determine what benefits and benefits you will receive as a result of achieving your goal. Find at least 10 reasons for this. The greater the benefits, the stronger the motivation will be. Without motivation the goal is unattainable.
You give up at the first failure
You often give up when faced with resistance on the way to your goal. You do not value your environment and the benefits of your environment. And the right environment can help you achieve your goal.
There will always be difficulties and obstacles of various kinds, but thanks to them we become disciplined.
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