These phrases have already become a kind of classics, but experts strongly do not recommend telling them to your child.
Family psychologists Ekaterina Goltsberg and Svetlana Shumskaya named 5 taboo phrases for parents.
Boys don't cry
With this phrase, you will not force your son to be strong, but put a block on the manifestation of emotions, on the manifestations of feelings that are normal and even necessary for the formation of a personality.You are a girl
This time, parents are trying to block the manifestation of feelings that are considered masculine in society. Such prohibitions can even lead to painful conditions, it is better to let the girl do what she loves, for example, conditionally male sports, in order to observe her happiness and positive emotions.
5 phrases psychologists advise never to tell a child
Let's leave you here, and let's go home ourselves
The point is to scare the child. And this phrase works even more intensely than it seems to parents. You signal to the baby that he is of no value to you, he trusts you.You will not get up from the table until you finish
Blackmail and threats are not the methods of upbringing that will allow you to raise a psychologically healthy child. Such food abuse can provoke aversion to any food or problems with being overweight in the future.
5 phrases psychologists advise never to tell a child
Don't you want to disappoint your mom or dad?
In this case, the child feels ashamed for other people's emotions. If you say this constantly, in the future the child will be afraid to do something that could disappoint someone else.Recall
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