Unfortunately, many of us often do not notice that we are in the clutches of a terrible manipulator.
This can lead to a whole host of unpleasant consequences. To identify a manipulator in your environment, look for the following signs.
Lack of direct answers
Usually, the manipulator doesn't bother being calculated. The professionals in this business know what they are doing and are usually cautious in what they say. Therefore, they often answer evasively, or they can completely evade answers if it is not profitable for them to answer questions.
Speech rate
A conscious manipulator usually deprives the interlocutor of time for reflection. Moreover, it is very skillful. He asks for a quick response and always arranges the situation so that you just can't say no.Discrepancy in gestures and emotions
This is the most obvious sign of the insincerity that many manipulators have. Differences are easily traced in what a person says and how he behaves. As a rule, manipulators actively gesticulate, and it is difficult not to notice it. Unconscious manipulation is characterized by the fact that a person does everything completely automatically, and a pro perfectly understands his insincerity, and tries to hide it behind an emotional background.
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