Many couples think that after the marriage certificate long and happy marriage started by default, but it is, alas, not so. To maintain the love and passion of the relationship need to work tirelessly. It does not always take a lot of time, because, as you know, happiness is in the details. What daily rituals help make your married life happy?
Each ritual takes about 2 minutes to 2 hours, in general it is only 5:00 all week. Dedicate this time, only two of you, because your happiness depends on future of your family. So, what should never be forgotten?
Morning coffee. Take a few minutes this morning to each other, discuss your plans and urgent family matters. It will not take more than two minutes, but you will have a clear plan for the day, in addition, you will have an idea schedule and plan your other half, so you will not have the idea of once again call and ask what he busy.
Meet with a smile. Do not forget that even if you have had a difficult day, do not need all the negative emotions and irritation to splash out on a wife who had just returned from work. Believe me, both of you are tired, just in their own way. For example, you can not put a child to sleep for three hours, and it is 2:00 stood in a traffic jam. Smile at each other, and hug, let each other feel that you are now safe, that there is a shoulder on which to lean. It is not necessary at the door to talk about what you have been day and what happened, let his wife go away from the road and thought that he was busy. Through 10-15 minutes, he asks you about everything himself and that's when you can discuss everything.
More physical contact. Remember when the last time you kissed, held hands in the park or watching your favorite movie, sitting in an embrace? Somehow, the greater the length of the relationship, the less vapor is romance and attention signs. Touches of hugs and kisses - a very important part of the relationship, which is able to maintain a spark of love and passion for many years. Chmoknu sleepy husband hugging goodbye, accidentally touch his feet under the table at dinner time - these seemingly little things can make your relationship stronger and happier.
Compliment each other.Praise and encouragement are able to give us wings. Make it a habit of saying thank you to each other, even for minor things. Husband washed the dishes - thank him, put the baby to sleep - tell you how delighted by what he is a great father. Do not turn the relationship into a routine and duty. It is not difficult, even for the sake of the experiment, try a week to say thank you to her husband, praise him and give compliments. Believe me, this is enough time to such a nice ritual has taken a worthy place in your happy family life.
Go on dates.Somehow, a date taken only count attribute candy buketnogo period, but because the couple need such a breath of fresh air a lot more. Choose one day a week that you'll devote to each other. Let it be 2:00 on a Friday night after work. Ask grandma to sit with the children, in extreme cases, take the coffee-sitter or take your child to the game and pay this time only to each other. Not necessarily every week to go to the restaurant, you can just take a stroll in a nearby park or go to the movies. This "time for two" soothes, relaxes and refreshes the feelings of the couple.
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