Love - a very strong feeling that inspires. It can cloud the mind so that we begin to idealize the senses. This leads to the fact that the partners demolish relations. Why is this happening?
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Myth 1 - on relations do not work
It is believed that if a person meets your soul mateIt is not necessary to work on the relationship. You are perfect for each other and understand everything perfectly. It is not true! Relationships always require a certain contribution. It is important to work on them, otherwise the love will pass quickly.Myth 2 - the second half knows how to love you
Only if it has the gift of predicting the future. The other person may not know what you want and how to love you. People are so different and complex that they must pronounce all the details that concern them, even if they think that they are all about to know each other.
Myth 3 - If there is love, the relationship will be perfect
Love - a great start for a relationship, but their success depends on many factors. What are your values, you emerging from conflictWhether you will be together to grow and develop? Without these things, the feelings will pass quickly, and a relationship with them.
Myth 4 - love will save us from pain
Someone saved in love from a previous relationship, someone runs into the feelings of himself. Truth one: if you can not take care of yourself, if you do not know yourself, do not want to take responsibility - no one can help you.
Myth 5 - the right to love - is the sacrifice
It is believed that true love with a man will sacrifice everything for the second half. But love - it is not a sacrifice, but a compromise. What is the difference? Victim brings pain to one who abandons himself, as a compromise - no. Sacrificing themselves for the second half, you will find value in his eyes, and do not get gratitude in return.
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