The theme of adultery as relevant as ever. On the one hand, this is the most common cause of the rupture of relations between the partners. On the other - is now actively preached in an open relationship and infidelity is perceived not as acute as before. And if a man's infidelity talk a lot and often, about women's taken longer remain silent. While it does not solve the problem.
The reasons for women cheating are different from men's. And if a man goes to adultery in search of something new, thrills or just for sexual meeting, the reasons for women cheating are somewhat different and mostly bear the psychological character.
Before you go to the adultery, the woman should think about the fact that in the end it will receive, and he could lose. Because any infidelity leads to the destruction of relations: either the husband will go from you, or he will change. BUT the reasons why women are unfaithful to their spousesUsually the following:
- Sexual dissatisfaction;
- A passing fancy;
- The desire to prove that she can be happy without a husband;
- Fashion for the open relationship.
5 correct ways not to fool
If you think about the prospects awaiting you later adultery, and are not willing to destroy the family, it makes sense to hold back the temptation. And it's real.
1. Remember that resist the change in the future you will not be able
Change only scary the first time, as you are plagued by fear of the unknown and about whether the husband finds out. Therefore, with each following a meeting with the lover you "get into a rut" and treason for you to become commonplace. So tempted once, you most likely will change my husband all the time.
2. Imagine the feelings of your spouse when he learns about your infidelity
It should imagine that your betrayal has occurred, and the husband knows everything. What will be his reaction? He hates you and is likely to give up. Affected by this, you may have even more than the husband. And if a family has children, then your passing fancy can become for them a psychological trauma for a lifetime.
3. Avoid meetings, even accidentally, with the object of desire
If you too crave a certain man and understand that relationship with him you do not need, avoid meeting with him. You'd better not see him and did not communicate, then your hormones will come back to normal, and you will save yourself from temptation, and the relationship with her beloved husband - from destruction.
4. Find a fun hobby.
Over the years, the marital relationship become more calm and monotonous, so can waft boredom. Especially if you have a lot of free time and nothing else to do. In this case, in order to protect themselves from the relationships on the side, find yourself an exciting experience. Either be engaged are: sport or self-distract you from unnecessary thoughts and relationships.
And an interesting hobby, provided that it is interesting to you, it may not only be great to decorate fresh everyday, but also to open in your unrealized talents, and even become a new source of income.
5. Change your marital relationship
In most cases, avoid infidelity, both male and female, allows changing relationship with her husband. Understand what is the cause of your dissatisfaction with the marital relationship: the frequent conflicts, sexual dissatisfaction or problems of everyday life.
Perhaps you should go on a trip together, or just need to talk with your loved ones understand their true desires and needs of the partner, to become close again, as before.
You will also be interested to know that CONCLUSIONS: the age at which men and women often change.
