It would seem that nothing boded trouble, but suddenly the couple lived a decent enough life together and looking the part of a model of the exponential family, suddenly parted. So whether it is actually surprisingly as it seems?
Of course not! Unfortunately, in the whirl of everyday life many people often do not notice situations that, in fact, the last effort to send signals «SOS», in order to draw attention to the fact that something has gone wrong. And the longer the couple did not pay attention to such a situation, the more and more every day the opportunity to reset the signing of the Armistice and all fat induced point of no return.
The absence of quarrels.At first glance, it seems that there is nothing wrong with that, and even remarkable that the couple does not quarrel. But in fact, it is likely banal indifference, which appeared in the second half, which is a thought: "I have anyway, what's going on in the relationship, "and did not want to look for points of contact, which could solve the emerging Problems.
Changes in sexual life. It so happens that the sexual partners varies considerably. Sometimes not even the worse, although often still the case. And sometimes it happens and vice versa - in this area very well, and beyond - the silence, because apart from sex for no good remains of former relations. Partners are increasingly "found" only in bed and that there may be (and sometimes not) spread two-three words, and in the rest of the time they did not even talk about. And sometimes it comes to the point that when people are together even heard as a mosquito buzzing.
Irritability with or without cause.At some point, you start to notice that you or your partner irritate each other so much, that we need only put a lighted match... Every word, every joke can become a cause and to enrage madness. Though at a distance, you miss each other, but should only be near as starting nowhere to grow a new wave of irritation.
There are different goals and interests. Everyone knows that "pull" for a partner, if he is no longer interested - is extremely difficult. You increasingly start to run is not in the same team, but in different directions, each for its own goals, no way in contact with each other. Sometimes even so, that the relationship retard "promotion" ahead of one of the partners.
Emotional abuse. Until recently, you only heard about this phenomenon on television and the internet and thought it savage, and for some time and your partner began to fully control your life, criticize you about and no reason to be jealous, and not even to the opposite floor. This applies to your hobbies, work, meetings with friends, etc. Sometimes the partner starts to manipulate you, trying to isolate from others you loved ones.
Changing the appearance.When one partner on a subconscious level, has already decided to do away with the existing relationship and move on, starting a new life, he begins a radically change something, creating a new way, not like the one that was in the data relations.
Chemistry.In the same way, as there is "chemistry" among lovers, and people who "outlived" their relationship, all changes in the chemical level. The main hormone oxytocin, which is produced by kissing, while touching, begins much less "go out" out, so that a woman begins to more and more irritated, nervous, get depressed, feel less and less their libido.
If a man has lost interest in the relationship, it significantly reduced testosterone levels with corresponding consequences.
And now look closely at the table, which we hid in the link in it - the secret of a happy marriage. You might wonder how it is actually really easy!
