Choose a name for the baby - a very important task for parents. Someone chooses a fashionable name, someone - a rare and someone calls the baby in honor of her grandmother or another relative. Why you should not do?
Name - not just a bunch of letters, it gives a person certain characteristics, can enhance the natural abilities and set the vector of fate. Quite often, the children called the name of someone from the family, in honor of his grandfather, great-uncle or dad. But psychologists insist that the child can not be called with the name of history, let's deal.
As someone else's name affects the child?
As it is impossible to name children / istockphoto.com
Often the child in the family is named after a deceased relative or someone whose life, for example, has developed very well, but in fact, and in another case, to do so not worth it. Why?
Naming a child after a particular person, you are woven into his life the fate of others, causing not live my life. So people's lives a burden, though very heavy load, they live with the constant justification: "And who is it easy?"
This applies not only to dead people or people whose fate was not very happy, even calling child name the successful and happy person you take away his own way and place in the family, imposing someone else's.
Of course, no one gives a guarantee that the child will repeat the fate of a relative or a famous person, in honor of which was named, but will repeat the key points of destiny, character traits, some events in his career, family And so on.
It is natural that the naming of the child with a history of a certain name, you put into it some meaning and significance, you have certain expectations. This, in turn, programs the child to live a certain life, and not his own. For example, you name the baby in honor of the famous singer, and he is in his mission quite creative personality, and a physicist, but creative direction will always override his true "I" and keep development. Such a person will be difficult, he will always feel at ease and as a result does not occur anywhere, and will be a loser.
How to give a name to the child?
How to choose the name of the child / istockphoto.com
Call your baby does not need to because it bore the name of your grandfather, or does it belong to a successful businessman, but because you like its sound, or meaning. This will give your child the opportunity to live your life, to become a personality and self-realization is what he has a predisposition.
Some people who feel that the name bothers them, but they can handle and break the energy bond, but, alas, not all of it under force. Sometimes need expert help. Often people after the change of the name revealed and become successful individuals, whereas with the former constantly had problems and failures.
Do not go on about the family, it is unlikely your grandfather would be offended if you are not his son would call Fedor, and Zahar or Maxim. But since you give the child a chance to live a wonderful life, not someone else's life.
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