Not all the whims should be stopped and punished. If a baby is reasonably angry, then cope with the vagaries of 2-3 years easy. Decide for yourself what your child can and what can not, and strictly follow it. In addition, you should clearly understand that the baby may not always accurately articulate their wishes, and when he feels that he is not understood - is getting nervous.
Do not take the whims of a child 3 years and older is mandatory, and a desire to annoy the baby to torment you. Perhaps there is a need to agree with him, explaining that the same could be asked to speak in a calm and friendly manner. Try to respond to the whims of a child 3 years calmly and reasonably.
For example, for a long time walking through the park in the afternoon, the baby's legs are tired, and return home accompanied by whining. The vagaries in 3-4 years easily stop communicating with your baby "on equal terms". Gently patting the crumbs on the head, you can tell him: "I understand that you have a sore leg. But you're already big and strong, and I'm sure we can handle together and quickly we reach home. " Thus, encouraging baby to a small child's victory over the other, you can avoid tears and tantrums.
In each case, you yourself have to determine how to respond to the child's moods, because it depends on your reaction, whether the baby will continue to insist on, or listen to you. Do not jump to conclusions and do not interrupt the baby, giving him the opportunity to express their opinion. Scarce needs to understand that he heard you, knowing what it feels like to help him.
