For many years, one of the main problems of modern society is that young parents do not always know how to bring up her baby. Not being able to choose the "golden mean", they are thrown from one extreme to the other, giving the children of the freedom, the "twisting the screws" to the limit.
Of course, if the early development really so necessary to the child, each parent to decide on their own, especially as experts and opinion today on this issue diverge dramatically. For our part, we offer to pay attention to books on the subject and are designed to help you make the right choice intuitively.
"After three too late" - one of these "tips." It was written in 1971, its author - one of the founders of Sony Corporation, a Japanese engineer Masaru Ibuka. It is obvious that being neither a teacher nor a psychologist, author of these things is quite a surprise, but in reality the solution is very simple: Ibuki own child seriously behind in mental development, and already as a result of experience gained through various experts, Ibuka, has organized the "Association of Early Development" and the school "Education talents. " And then I wrote a book and became one of the most respected experts in the field.
In the book basis - the idea that children from birth are very inquisitive and learn about the world much more active than adults. Ibuka offers to teach the child useful skills at an age when he is given the easiest, that is, from birth to three years.
"The child is under the age of three years, it is easy to learn that he is interested in, and you should not worry about the amount of energy and effort, spent thus, "- writes Ibuka, sharing thoughts, which are present in every sane parent subconsciously level. Thus, in the book you will not find any "innovation", but what do you think, are arrayed in the approval and acquired from this deeper meaning.
"It is not necessary to do something special to contribute to the early development of your child. The best thing to begin with - to create a harmonious relationship between husband and wife and a pleasant psychological atmosphere of the house ", - says Ibuka.
The book reads very easily, because there are many stories of life, it is inspiring to follow this procedure. Children floating from birth, to read fluently at an early age, a virtuoso playing the violin and speak several languages - these examples indeed impressive and make us think that not every parent is basically guesses about the hidden possibilities of their own child, especially at such an early age. The author does not provide and does not impose any clear instructions. He simply underscores the axiom that "the best feeling of their child only one who takes care of him every day."
Ibuka urges parents not to pay attention to the complexity of the information, and the shape of its submission in accordance with the interests of the child and his natural environment - that is, on the game. For example, he believes that it is possible to instill in your child a love of music, including a regular basis in the background classical works. A study of a foreign language to start with a cartoon that looks a child, only including them in another language.
In fact, Ibuka said that the most important thing - it is not to miss the moment and to lay a solid foundation in the very an early age, when the baby activated ability to memorize, creativity and thirst for development. And it is from the parents determine whether a child will be able in the future to develop a personalized gift in a certain area, because, the firm conviction of the author, "the formation of the child's abilities and character is not determined by genes and upbringing and environment environment. "
My own belief is that this book (as well as any other) is written not to reject or to unconditionally follow the recommendations. Everyone is free to decide what to do with the information. And after reading the book, do not worry that your child of five late to change anything. This is not true! After all, "the best education for your child - it's a mother's love. The most important lesson for parents - a child-rearing. " I enjoy them at any time in their lives - that's for sure is never too late!
