The main and the very first task of a woman - is to learn to love yourself. What kind of self-love, we say, when we save money on myself?
Woman comes to the shop to buy food for the rest of Semuy necessary things for the children, for her husband - it is always a means, but on himself, his beloved woman saves. Putting yourself last, she signaled to her husband and the whole environment, it is not as valuable as it should be. And then a woman udivlyaetsya why the man does not give gifts, do not spoil it and stingy. Because man does so, as you do with them.
Savings on themselves - this is when the woman puts money not for the coveted purchase, and school uniforms son or where long I wanted to go to a beauty salon, but it is a pity money, when there is money for everything and everyone but themselves.
Savings on themselves - this is when you do not remember the last time you indulged yourself Presents and shopping.
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You should be aware that when you save for yourself, you will:
- looks tired;
- not radiate happiness and dissatisfaction with himself and life;
- You lose the attractiveness and joy;
- gives a signal to the man that you can be saved;
- You make it clear to others that you are not worthy of attention;
- It does not look as attractive as they could.
If you do not pamper yourself, it means that you will not feel happy. After all, only a happy woman always wants to look attractive, and her beauty, she does wonders.
When a woman begins to save on them, which means that she cares and takes the time to the man more than myself, and it turns out - including the mother instinct for men.
And when this happens, a woman's feminine energies overlap and include the parent. But the mother can only be for their children, but not for his men. We must remember the important thing: take from the mother, and a woman - are given. When a woman learns to give themselves (gifts, fun, joy, pleasure), while the whole world around a woman wants to give more! And for this to happen - you need to learn to love yourself first and foremost.
How to become generous with yourself?
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Start with the fact that 10% of all cash flows need to immediately spend on themselves, that is fun. Ask yourself often: "What do I want?", "What do I love?" Very often, women do not know what to say.
After all, these women are "block" what brings them pleasure and have banned themselves from everything! We recommend that you do one uprazhenenie - make a list of what can bring you happiness every day. For example, to feed a cat or in the morning leisurely drinking coffee and looking out the window. In the morning, ask yourself the question: "What fun today, I'll give myself?" Change onoshenie money and shopping. Allow yourself to enjoy a coffee at the prestigious institution, go to expensive stores try on clothes that much.
Just love yourself!
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