If you are always unlucky in love, the parents are to blame. At least, so say scientists at Harvard University. They proved that the culprits of failure to love life and relationships are most often the parents.
How do the mom and dad to the children of a loving relationship? Why is this influence is so strong that we spoil the relationship with your partner? And how can we fix failures in love? Read on Kolobok.ua
It turns out our relationships in adult life influence relationship between the mother and father. This experience and becomes a conductor on the love front. The situation is getting worse by the fact that few modern parents communicate with their children on the theme of love and relationships.
According to the study, children who grew up in a family where the parents are divorced from the scandal, which absorbs all the negative in relation to the parent of the opposite sex. This experience, they carry on their relationship into adulthood and similarly apply to his partner.
Is not it better situation and when a couple decides
to live for the sake of childrenWithout having a warm relationship to each other. In such a family, children grow up with full confidence that cool relations - the norm. Therefore, their family life becomes a burden to them.
How to fix?
Is it possible to correct the influence of parents on personal life? Scientists say that the situation is remedied, the main thing to take responsibility for their relationship to themselves.
First of all have to remember to detail the emotional relationship of your parents. Think about what you are doing in their relationships "as a blueprint?" Be aware that this can be corrected by simply tracking those moments in your life.
Remember, the relationship - is the work of two. You have to learn to compromise, as well as to talk with your partner. After alone can not build a truly warm relationship. It is also important to understand that the relationship - not a battlefield, in which there are no winners and losers. The relationship does not have to prove their case, it is important to feel comfortable and happy. If you take it a rule to follow these doctrines, then you'll have to build a harmonious relationship and strong family, even though the sad experience of the parents and its impact on you.
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