7 things you can not prohibit children

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No, no "impossible" to bring up my child will not work - bans help the child understand what to do dangerous or ugly in the eyes of others.

However, "to wrap up" a son in solid bans - is not an option, because it hinders the development of the baby, nipped in the bud his creative flair. How to be? Let's see, what are 7 things to prohibit child NOTcategorically.

DISASSEMBLE TOYS

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"It is necessary to buy a child a toy, it will be immediately disassembled into pieces! As if on purpose does "- complain many mothers. Let's agree: at the tender age our children simply are not able to harm and do something "on purpose" - everything they do is done out of curiosity.

And if your team regularly spoil the expensive machines, interactive fun and guts just purchased or donated stuffed animals - do not buy and do not give expensive toys. A child grant available to old toys, books, newspapers - even experimenting.

sully

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Another aspect of research activity - to measure the depth of puddles, digging pits to collect sticks and stones, throw them into the water - how can his childhood to do without these important experiments? Nothing. A wet shoes dry - in the rain is better to wear rubber. Soiled pants or jacket will wash machine, and the baby for a walk, you can put a spare set of clothes from the category of "not new."

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DO NOT eat up

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"Well, what do you not eat a slice on a plate - you're all the strength left!" - complains mother, hanging over the child. Do you know why? Because once as mother forced to eat up everything on a plate of her mother and her grandmother. Do not attempt to baby food - he eats as much as he needed to eat. To food benefited, the kid should eat heartily.

Appetite awakens in the child, when the baby spent the energy to walk, while playing and just hungry, according to the diet. And if the child does not eat, he might not be healthy or not yet hungry. Or maybe before dinner was a hearty snack?

Sleep with the lights on

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So many kiddies with a vibrant imagination easier to calm and sweet sleep and not be frightened if they wake up in the middle of the night alone.

Say what pleases

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This "verbal flow" (though in it and a lot of drivel) kids learn to express their opinions, formulate your own thoughts and conclusions. Very important work! You just listen to the child and explain to him the complex nuances. You'll see how quickly the crumb will grow wiser, and how soon will surprise you quite clearly conclusions.

draw the longbow

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Not intentionally lie - that is worth reproach child, namely, to invent, to think. Fantasy - a favorite child's play when he is in his own universe. This is how children's minds, and you should include his adult wisdom and to direct children's fantasy track. Ask your child to draw the story, or even create a book, a notebook of stories in drawings or applications.

express emotions

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Children's psyche is such that it brake mechanisms... brake, so the child is not difficult to jump, no jumping, no screaming or shouting. So do not bother to throw out energy. Another thing, if you were in a hospital or in a large store - prepare several options for a while to calm fidget with something interesting.

WHAT TO PROHIBIT:

• to take other people's things;
• talk and go somewhere with a stranger;
• fighting and biting other children throw stones;
• to run out on the road;
• jumping from a height.

Prohibiting, explain to your child that you love him very much, worried for his life and health, and therefore be protected from danger. In such a feeding baby will definitely take your concern.

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