What to tell the bad habits in children: 3 surprising facts

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Every adult can find a couple of habits that are classified as hazardous. For example, a love for nicotine, alcohol, fatty and sugary foods.

Toddlers, too, there are bad habits. They, fortunately, are different from adults, but, nevertheless, are not only a source of irritation to the household, but also a real wake-up call that you need to consider each parent.

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In fact, any action, whether it's picking your nose, nibble nails or sucking fingers, only with time become habits. The forerunners of the most frequent neurological disorders that are both light and heavier.

According to the systematic actions of the child can easily determine the degree of impairment of his mental condition.

Slight tensionMost often accompanied by such habits as:
• Thumb sucking
• nibble nails
• Tweaking the nose
• clothes Tereblenie (bed before going to sleep)

On average degree of nervous tension saying such actions as a child:
• biting lip (up to the formation of hematomas)
• Interrupting burrs on the fingers

On a serious nervous disorder speak regularly recurring actions following the child:

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• obsessive desire self-satisfaction
• Rend wounds
• wrap or even hair pulling

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Such actions appear in the child spontaneously. And if adults think that pipsqueak does something special, it is deeply mistaken view. This is none other than the tension, which is necessary to help your child get rid of as quickly as possible.

If your restless a mental disorder in any case, do not abuse it, otherwise you will not only not be able to help him cope with this situation, but also to "pound" the problem in depth, and enough innocent habits may subsequently be transformed into a serious psychosomatic disorders resulting from consequences.

Of course, the first step is to find out the cause of the bad habits. If the apparent reason for concern is found, then you just need to try to reduce the pace of life of the baby.
At the very first manifestations of the above habits, parents as "otvlekatelny maneuver" often as possible must be done gently and switch on the child's other activities.

You can "play" with the baby, and the habit to make your overall "enemy" (and not the child as is often the case). Come up with a nickname for the crumbs habits and pay attention to it, when again clung to the child, this tedious and pristavuchaya "Gryzka nails" and, moreover, focuses attention if a child cope with his task: he wanted to scratch but restrained himself and did not this. Be sure to praise him for it!

It is likely that your child is simply not enough of your attention, warmth and bodily touch, so as often as possible to establish an emotional connection with your child, laying on time all the household chores and spend more time with child.

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What absolutely can not do, saving the child from bad habits:
• Scold the child (even more so to punish)
• Making fun of the kid, especially when other people
• To put the child conditions
• Tell your child that to him no one will be friends and everyone will laugh at him
• Prohibit the habit, using drastic methods (such as smearing finger pepper)
• Talk crumbs that if he would repeat his actions, because of this you will not love him

Such methods can provoke even greater tension and lead to the fact that child withdraw into themselves. The main task of the parents - to choose the right strategy and then a pipsqueak can gradually, step by step, get rid of their bad habits, and accordingly, and nervous tension.

If you see that all of your independent attempts in vain, do not hesitate to contact professionals, because a bad habit of your child - is a direct indicator of what is happening inside families. Perhaps it was with the help of a qualified professional, you will be able to improve relations between all members of the family, and get rid of the negative consequences. All in your hands!

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