According to psychologists, the life of people in marriage or in a relationship consists of seven stages. Take note, apply, get ready. I think if everyone knew this information, then the divorce rate would definitely be less than 70-80 percent!
Everyone chooses a soul mate for himself. It just doesn't happen right away, bam, and perfect. So that you can feel the fullness of true love in family life, you definitely need to get to know each other, get to know, make friends. And only then and fall in love! It is a pity that some consider the candy-bouquet period to be fiery love. And a lot of couples break up after romance and gifts end. A person's rose-colored glasses fall, everything already seems not so cloudless and beautiful, the first difficulties in relationships appear. Many are not given to accept this, it is easier for them to think that love has passed.
The most important qualities of showing love are patience and loyalty. Therefore, if you suddenly come to the conclusion that your love has come to an end, it means that it did not exist, it has not yet begun with you!
There are 7 stages of a relationship, through which the couple finds a strong union and true love!
Candy-bouquet period
This is exactly what I said at the beginning of the article. First, a spark runs between you, you are in the clouds, there is real romance around you two, and this continues for an average of 1.5 years! Yes, it is stupid during this period to run to the registry office and swear eternal love. Hormones are raging in your body, which is why you see the world in bright pink! It seems to you that you know your partner very well, everything that he does, you see as amazing and wonderful. You are as if in some kind of intoxication. Take your time with life-changing decisions. Sooner or later, your rose-colored glasses will fall and you will face reality. Unfortunately, most of the time it is not as rosy as it seemed.
Oversaturation
So, rose-colored glasses fell off you, and now you are already soberly looking at your relationship, at your partner, the wave of passion and vivid feelings calms down, and now you are starting to get used to each other. You behave naturally and at ease.
Disgust
It is impossible to avoid this stage, no matter who and whoever says it! During this period, you begin to notice the shortcomings of your half, it starts to strain you, you often quarrel. The only way out of this, as it seems to you, is expense, well, or a divorce. And what happens next if you give up and break up with your partner? You will meet another person, and the candy-bouquet period will come again for you, and then again the glasses will fall, so you can meet endlessly, but you will never know true love!
Patience
During this period, man and woman finally acquire wisdom. There are quarrels, but there is no more drama in them. The realization comes that, despite the discord, it will be necessary to continue somehow the relationship. Patience appears, the ability to understand, to compromise.
Respect and Duty
You will be surprised, but it is from this period that the first stage of true love begins! And before that she was not there yet! You start helping each other to fulfill responsibilities. You are not thinking about your desires, but about the needs of your partner. You want to make your soulmate pleasant and good, and think about yourself only later.
friendship
An amazing period in which partners become much closer to each other. Trust, sincere friendship appears. The road to true love continues.
True love
All this long time you have been walking towards true love. You were patient, you rubbed against each other, you quarreled and reconciled. You got into all sorts of difficult situations and troubles, but you managed to cope with it all, and now you deserve a reward. As you can see, true love will not fall on you from the sky! It is foolish to think that way. It is important to mature for true love, to abandon prejudices and selfishness. It's important to work on relationships!
What stage of your relationship are you at now?
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