The system of punishments is different. And if some child experiences painlessly, others can significantly shatter his nervous system.
To deprive the child of the sweet
Demonstratively depriving a child of his favorite food can generate passive aggression towards you and family members. This is especially wrong when there are several children in the family, and while some are eating sweets, the punished child begins to envy the most terrible envy. In the future, this harms relationships within the family.
Boycott
The decision not to talk to your child because of any misconduct may come back to haunt you after a couple of years. Significant silence significantly affects the baby's nervous system. She becomes more wobbly and susceptible to any type of stress.Ban on chatting with friends
When the parents begin to dictate to the child with whom to communicate and with whom not, the conflict begins between you. The child needs free space and freedom of choice. And the decision with whom to establish contact is one of the first made by him, which does not depend on you in any way. Therefore, speculating on this topic is taboo.
Public humiliation
It can manifest itself in different ways: from a raised tone to physical abuse. Do not put your inner conflicts out in the open. Even if it concerns issues within the family.
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