What to consider every mother in the upbringing of his son

And for each mother it is important to bring up the crumbs so that both were comfortable. With regard to the education of daughters, mothers here a little easier, because the girl a girl can understand much easier. But when it comes to the education of his son, the moms usually arises a lot of questions - that she, as a woman, can give him?

We will examine some of the basic rules that every mother should consider when bringing up his son.

• Never taunt son

For any man, or mocking any condescending tone are distressing. A mother's mockery - it is a very deep trauma that can stay with him forever, underwent adulthood.

And you never know what can hurt your son. Tolley you laugh at the fact that he drew the dog blue felts put shoes on the wrong feet, felts admitted neighbor girl in love, and you laugh, did not take the situation seriously. Any, even the most harmless smile mother can stay deep scar in the heart of a boy for life.

• Always answer the questions his son

Son questions you need to answer any of his age. And it should not be such options as "grow - know" or anything else like that. Answer his questions, always and everywhere, and if you do not know how to answer the question and admit to his son, do not hesitate it, ask him for a reprieve, and be sure to find out the answer.

• Always consult with her son in decision-making

Sometimes, it's hard to imagine the ease with which a son can solve the "adult" problem. The more often the mother consults with her son, the little boy quickly learns to be a man, to take certain decisions and become a mainstay. Demonstrate as much as possible to his sons, his respect and trust relationship to them.

• Do not use the phrase: "I told you so"

Even if you say, but the son did not listen to you and really made a mistake, do not tell him this phrase as: "I told you so", otherwise the situation will turn into a competition and compete with a baby, as a minimum, stupid.

Even if you were right, that in most cases occurs, it does not show openly their victory over him. He himself is aware of everything, but you do not humiliate his male ego.

• Often praise his son

In different situations, admire my son! Not so: "Well, here it is necessary to correct a little bit", and "Great job, great!".

Even if in fact this is not true. But the next time he will appear more and more desire to do even better than last time. If the mother is after all the work done and to praise at the same time use the "but", the desire to seek the boy to a more productive work will fade with each passing day.

• Keep any dream son

Whatever the idea is not visited your son, always keep it. "I want to become a great artist" - great!

Buy him some books and write in the circle of the young artist. "I want to be a chemist" - cool! Again, buy books on the subject. son of ideas can change many times, and it is not necessary to him reproachfully say that we ought to have to decide on one thing. He is able to do only to 20 years. A previously memorize scheme suggested above.

• Not be ashamed of his son, when he cries

If your son is crying, so he had a real disaster. It does not matter that it was tasteless porridge in the garden or on the playground away his favorite toy - for it is a tragedy of universal scale. And all by the fact that his world is still very small. Son should always feel your support, and with it a sense of security.

• Be always on the side of his son

This is very important in the education of his son. At his side should be not only in words but also in deeds.

Not assent to tutors, teachers, criticizing your child. Do not shout at him "for the company" with other relatives. On people your son has to be always right, even if it is not true. You can be alone with him to discuss important aspects of his behavior and acts, but with other people, you should always be on his side.

In this case, the child will be able to refer you to many of the issues, even intimate, as it will be sure that you do not condemn or blame.

And it's worth it when the son trusts you.

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