It is summer, which means season playgrounds finally opened! Swings, slides and a sandbox - it's not just children's fun place, but also a source of constant conflicts, both among children and between their parents
How to avoid unnecessary tantrums and tears on the playground?
By two years of court becomes a favorite place for a child, and this is not surprising, because there can be tired with running about and plenty naprygalis. But other than that, playground - and even place your child's socialization, and how gently and painlessly it will depend, inter alia, from their parents. Our tips will help you avoid conflicts in a sandbox.
Take a walk, only those toys that are not afford to lose or break.Nobody will be surprised by the fact that children are at the playground want to play other people's toys. So try to take the sandbox toys that you do not mind. Expensive or favorite toy baby unlikely to want to shareor even just to give it another look at the kid. Collect a box of "street" of toys and let the kid before each walk chooses what he will take with him.
Play with familiar children.It is best to play at the site with familiar children, it will save you from a lot of problems, because children are already familiar with, they can play together and share toys. Even if there is a conflict situation, you know how kids and their parents can respond.
Arrange in advance. On the way to the site said, with a child's right to be observed. Emphasize that it is impossible to push, to select toys without permission, to take other people's things, throwing sand. A child needs to know that if, despite your warnings, he continued to indulge in, and you're going to go home. The main thing to be consistent in actions and not to throw empty words, if said means it is necessary to fulfill its promise, in spite of the tears and tantrums toddler.
Control their emotions.Playground - test for mom, because you need to get along in the same sandbox with other people's children, and their parents. Be prepared for the fact that your child can pour sand on his head or push away the toy. React calmly, do not need to rip out the abuser from toy hand or criticize someone else's child, let the children understand themselves, do not interfere as long as the situation does not require it. That is how a child learns to be in society.
Successful you walks and peaceful games in the sandbox!
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