Birth of a child - the most long-awaited and moving event for future parents. The closer the time comes to leave, the more acutely the question arises, whether to send future mom to the hospital one or take with her husband on the birth partner?
From the very beginning of pregnancy in women is changing not only the appearance but also her emotional state, which is "reconfigured" to care not only about themselves but also about their future child. She is extremely important that relatives and friends of people as much as possible showed her concern and devote sufficient attention. This is especially true of her husband, whom many women would like to see as a partner in the delivery.
It is important to know that the decision about the birth partner for a few days until the process is unacceptable, since partner should be prepared in advance for the upcoming process of birth, to be able to provide real support to the laboring woman. This is all achieved with the help of special training, which is conducted during pregnancy.
As in any other matter the opinions of experts and ordinary people about partner deliveries divided into two camps. There are as ardent supporters of this because they are convinced that the partnership birth can only benefit the couple, but also there are opponents of this type of delivery, considering that for a partner it can be a real shock. What converge and opponents and supporters of delivery data, so it is that the decision on the presence of her husband during his wife's confinement must be informed and the maximum weighted by both partners.
What are the benefits of partnerships childbirth?
- Quicker "Start" paternal feelingsWith the proviso that the man fully prepared for the process and the preparation was full.
- Adequate negotiating with doctors and decision at the right moment certain decisions, as a woman, distracted by the crested waves of pain, it is difficult to decide the most
- Newfound dad can first take the child in his arms, that with the right preparation will help him to experience one of the strongest emotions that will help strengthen your emotional bond with the child for life
- The same partner can follow the work and actions of medical staff both in relation to the child, and his wife
- For many pregnant women is very important the presence of a loved one, which they could not only be fully trusted, but also to listen to them, which is very important in some moments
However, as many studies show, often partnered generations have a negative impact on both the family couple in whole and for each of the partners in particular, which may further lead to undesired consequences.
In which case, partner childbirth can "hurt"?
- Unprepared man with emotional and impressionable nature, can be shocking view of a woman during childbirth, and all the processes it. This can lead him to the definition of mental injury as a result may lose sexual interest in his wife.
- Many men are not only unable to help his wife, but they themselves later in need of help, as many of them may even lose consciousness in the process.
- Many women can not behave calmly, giving birth to a child, as the experience that her husband sees her is not at its best. They are shy with her husband quietly push that only hinders the natural course of the birth process.
- Many psychologists do not recommend to hold joint childbirth couples who have problems in personal relationships. This can only make matters worse.
- It is also not recommended to take part in the partnership delivery men whose occupations involve risk and danger, as well as persons holding managerial positions. This is due to the fact that at the critical moment by such expectant fathers can be too emotional reaction and desire manage the process on their own, pushing the medical staff to the background, which can lead to unpredictable consequences.
Advice of experts - not to pay tribute to fashion and to weigh the "pros" and "cons", with regards to delivery and partnerships, if the husband is willing and sincerely wishes to support his wife in such a difficult and responsible for her time, it can really become one of the most important components in their relations.
If the partner is afraid that will not cope with the presence at birth, it is necessary to listen to his opinion without insisting and pressing on it. After all, the family - is a mutual respect for each other, so you can pick up an assistant better prepared in the case of man, such as his mother or best friend that you trust completely. Light your birth!
Also be sure to ask about in some cases the use of epidural anesthesia during childbirth is strictly contraindicated
