How to survive the separation?

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When you have to part with a man to whom you feel a sense of attraction and inside there is a real war. After all, this man gave you emotions, without which it is very difficult to live. It is the joy of meeting and communication, hormonal surges and pleasant feeling of what a person is near.

And then one day, you realize that this communication can not be continued, the person did something that you are not ready to accept and forgive, and you need to leave.

What is going on in my head at that moment?

And why do we experience emotional pain?

If we analyze these conditions and try to find the cause, it becomes clear that the pain we experience on what can no longer be fed by the energy that gave us a loved one.

We can no longer experience the feeling experienced while next to him, or in close contact. And accumulate such feelings alone - is not possible. for this we need the other person.

After parting like we're trying to find the man, but we have it does not work, all the rest does not bring such joy, because the feelings of the man still overwhelmed. And it's like walking in a circle.

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The recipe is simple recovery. Usually, if we exclude all contact with a source of joy and pain emotional attachment and relationship runs 21 days.

It is important not simply to talk, but still and not think about the person. And if not, then do it without fanaticism and try to change the thoughts.

Three weeks later, it will be easier, most importantly do not be tempted to start all over again and not make mistakes, because it would nullify all your efforts.

Find the strength to let go of the person and accept the fact that you do not need, you are no longer communicate and do not bind anything.

Do not waste your life on the experiences and suffering. People in the world billions of people and there will be even better and closer, but you need to give yourself time to forget, to accept and move on.

It seems that this is not possible. But, believe me, it is more than real, and in front of you waiting for a wonderful future.

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